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However, my life story has been a rebellious feud against so-called normality.

I remain passionate about all I do, especially concerning affairs of the heart.

Unfortunately for him, I am not built to take orders. There was desire and Spanglish in abundance — with me and with other women.

In time, I continued developing, and he fell behind. Well, as the women in your family may have reminded you at some point, “what you do not do in the dark, the next will.” Still, the fun fact is this — never cared.

Artistically, there is not much of a difference between us.

And no matter who dares to interfere, to know him is to know me. Cultural difference is real, but it ultimately comes down to whose demons are down to play with yours.

When my cousin on the all-black side birthed a baby girl whose father had become abusive, we took a long ride to a shopping mall. On the ride home we were quiet and I decided I would never date a black man as long as my feet touched this earth.

Still, illegitimate or not, my Latina-level intimacy is intense.

He supported my work and called me Butterfly; our relationship was nauseatingly blissful. I posted photos of black love on every social media account and considered myself as part of a larger revolution.

I had hushed conversations in the corners of cafés about how important it was to keep feeding the black community with positive affirmations and how it began with loving black men.

The men in my life have all been extremely dissimilar.

Yet, their commonality is the pedestal I placed them on. In true Scorpio fashion, I do not discriminate when it comes to race. Traditionally, Latinas are raised to be everything.

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